Your probably thinking what-the-fuck!!!!!! trust me
I'm thinking it too.
So this realization hit me when i thought back to 2 different
instinces in recent memory
1.) So as of late
I've been
texting and talking on the phone back and forth with a guy i met through a
friend. he seems nice, but
I'm in NO rush to get involved in anything,
I'm still trying to figure my life out since the huge drawn out drama fest that is my last relationship. So this guy, well call him phone boy, does his fair share of partying seeing as hes in a band. So
a lot of time ill get random texts or calls of i love you, marry me, and i miss you when hes been drinking (really
awkward). So the past week he calls and is drinking but not drunk, just a little relaxed. and we are talking bout our days, he had a gig and then was watching hockey. and i told him id been reading on the computer. he asked what, i
wasn't sure i should tell him i was reading
Twi-Smut, so i half
truthed it and said stuff about twilight. the problem came soon after that when he said:
PB:
oo that teenage vampire shit? please tell me you
arnt into that shit?"
Me: no
that's not it, its not crap and its not just teenage vampire stuff
PB:
haha your how old again? are you still in high school, i thought you were
like 23
ME: i am 23, whats your
fucking point?!?!?
PB: its kinda sad that you saw that movie
ME: SAD???? have you even seen it?
PB: FUCK NO!!!!!!!!! do you own it? tell me you
don't own it!!
ME: NO!!! i
don't own a copy of it, ...............i own TWO copies of it!!!!!!! AND!!! the soundtrack, and the books!!!!!
PB: ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS!!!!?????!?!?!?!
OMG Your joking right??!!?!?!?!{ laughing his ass off}
ME: I.AM. BEING. SERIOUS!!!!!!!!! whats your problem with it?
PB: its for little kids. {laughs} do you have the bed set? {laughs} i had a
spider man one, when i was 8
ME: I
don't think they make one, but
hrmmm if they did maybe { half busting his chops half completly serious}
the rest of our c
onvo that evening just got worse. pretty much he thought i was nuts or joking about liking it. the next day when he was sober he asked about ti again, thinking i had been pulling his chain. when i told him no he just thought is was the funniest thing ever.
That's when i realized he was no where near the kind of guy i want.
In fact i told him i
didn't see things going past a friendship, but
didn't tell him why. the answer was simple, he
couldn't accept how much of a
twi-freak i am. And honestly with all the shit
Ive dealt with in the past year, i just want to be me, and letting the
twi-freak out is part of me
2.) my poor friend
Matt, i really feel bad for the boy. He is one of my closest friends, but hes head over heals in love with me. I see him like a best friend though and am in no way attracted to him as anything other that that. He is one of the few people who knows the inner
twi-hard i am, and he
doesn't give me too much shit for it. He's seen the shit
I've endured recently and he figures if
getting a
Little twi-
sessed is making me happy then so be it.
Somewhere along the lines thought he started to think if he jumped into this crazy obsession too it might changes things between us. He
hasn't even r
ead the books or seen the movie though. he read the overviews on
IMDB and thinks hes got a clue. He
actually asked if he was my Jacob.
WTF!?!?!!?! WHO THE FUCK ASKS THAT?!?!!?!? i told him no!! then a few days later he shocked the shit outta me again by saying " you know i could be your
Edward, but you wont let me!" AGAIN
WTF!?!?!?!!?!?!? There is so much wrong with the things hes saying, that i can barley reply when he asks and have to make up an excuse to get off the phone and laugh while trying to figure out how to get him a girlfriend.
then the other day it hit me!!! Because of this
twi-session, i
don't think ill meet a guy i could date anytime soon. Thanks to S.M. and the Twilight saga and movies I'm finding it hard to think of any guys i could ever date. They'd have to meet the following list or
requirements::
1. Must have read the entire saga
2. seen the movie
3. knows that the books and movies are
completely different
4. not give a fuck that i am
twi-
sessed5. realize i am in no way going to hide it from them
6. No i am not going to make them my obsession
So now i am left wondering if for some strange reason, am i going to compare the guys i date to Edward Cullen?